Friendship Points: Enhance Relationships in Stardew Valley

Author: Adam Feb 02,2025

This guide details how to maximize friendship levels in Stardew Valley, a crucial aspect of the game. Building relationships with villagers through kindness and gifts is key, but the system has nuances.

The Heart System:

The in-game heart meter shows friendship levels with each NPC. Each heart represents 250 friendship points. Positive interactions increase points, while negative ones decrease them.

Heart Meter

Boosting Friendship Gains:

The "Friendship 101" book, obtainable from the Prize Machine (9th prize) or the Bookseller (Year 3, 9% chance), provides a permanent 10% friendship point bonus.

Interaction Point Values:

  • Talking: +20 points (or +10 if the villager is busy). Not talking results in a friendship decrease (-2 points daily, -10 with a bouquet given, -20 for a spouse).
  • Bulletin Board Deliveries: +150 points with the recipient.
  • Gifts:
    • Loved: +80 points
    • Liked: +45 points
    • Neutral: +20 points
    • Disliked: -20 points
    • Hated: -40 points
    • Winter Star Festival: 5x points
    • Birthdays: 8x points

Gift Giving

Special Gifts:

Stardrop Tea grants +250 points (+750 on birthdays/Winter Star), bypassing daily/weekly gift limits. It's found in the Prize Machine, Golden Fishing Chests, Helper's Bundle reward, or from the raccoon.

Stardrop Tea

Movie Theater:

Movie dates offer significant friendship boosts. Ticket cost: 1000g. Outcomes vary based on movie and snack choices:

  • Loved Movie: +200 points
  • Liked Movie: +100 points
  • Disliked Movie: 0 points
  • Loved Concession: +50 points
  • Liked Concession: +25 points
  • Disliked Concession: 0 points

Movie Theater

Conversations and Dialogue:

Dialogue choices can yield +10 to +50 points or decrease friendship. Heart Events offer similar opportunities for significant gains or losses (+/- 200 points).

Conversation

Festivals and Events:

  • Flower Dance: +250 points (1 heart) for a successful dance (requires 4 hearts or more).
  • Luau: Soup contributions affect friendship (+120 to -100 points).
  • Community Center (Bulletin Board): Completing all bundles rewards +500 points (2 hearts) with each non-dateable villager.

Flower Dance

This comprehensive guide empowers players to cultivate strong relationships and unlock the full potential of Stardew Valley's social interactions. Remember that thoughtful actions and well-chosen gifts are the keys to success.